Last time, someone has been 'scolding' me (not literally being scolded) because of something that he should had done but then, asking me to do it. Sometimes, I would give a helping hand but it is actually depends on the scenes. 

So, this human has been asking me to ask someone if she can borrow him a car. You know this is a very very very irritating FOR ME. Then, I replied to him, I said , I don't want to borrow something so precious or something which is a very important in someone's life or at least, this is needy.  Then he criticised me, this human said, 


Okey dude, I give you my penny thoughts.  

1) You need that, why would you ask someone to borrow that for you?

2) I am not that type of someone who will borrow someone's property, especially cars. Yes, I believe we need a car, but find some alternatives man. Why don't you rent a car instead of borrowing if you really in need? or take a taxi at least?

3) Borrowing things will make others feel annoyed to you. I have this kind of attitude, I don't care if others borrow my things, but, I would not dare myself to borrow others, except you are friended with me for a long time, that thing will do. Mendaks (my friends) will do .

Last time, I need a printer and after a day I bought mine, and yes, I am proud of myself because I don't have to borrow someone's property. I collected mine. Yes, this is what we called as alternative.

 So people, make some alternatives first before you decide of borrowing someone's properties. 
 Please and Please and PLease. Be gold.