And there was a day on a lecture, someone told me that I am always pleasing people. Do I? Somehow I feel I don't, and I actually don't. I am pleasing myself.

As for me, the word pleasing people is not a suitable one. Can we replace it to " respecting" people?
It's not I am pleasing people, I am respecting them. We are all the same. How billion diamonds or gold in your body that you had the gut to show your unpleasant manner to people?

Just don't cross the line, respect them will you?